Masculine And Feminine Polarity
By Pick Up Artists Association
If you want to become really successful with women, you need to make a fundamental shift in who you are. An important part of this shift is coming into alignment with your masculine core.
Polarity is a term that is thrown around a lot in books on relationships, spiritual sexuality and sexual yoga. It also has a place in discussion within the Pick Up Artists Community.
Polarity comes across as a pretty airy-fairy new age concept in most writings, but it really isn’t so. Polarity is simply the “vibe” that you feel from others that pulls you towards them.
The basic distinction is that masculine is action and feminine in reaction. This holds true from the approach to 50 years of marriage in a healthy relationship.
This becomes clear when you think about sex. Good sex happens when the man totally dominates his woman and ravishes her. He is the one penetrating her, moving her around and talking dirty into her ear. The woman totally submits to the man and allows herself to become totally immersed in the incredible sensations that he is creating for her.
That is masculine and feminine polarity in practice. During the pickup, this is the case on a less extreme level.
When you are attracting a girl, her feminine side is really becoming attracted to your masculine side. When you are building comfort with her, you are making her more comfortable with going further into her feminine side and, ultimately, surrendering to you. If you understand polarity, therefore, you understand the game.
What is the practical application of this? When you do things like approach a woman, tell her to give you her phone number, take her on action dates, grab her and kiss her, you are expressing your masculine essence. This is why women are so attracted to guys who do those kinds of things.
When you orbit around her instead of approaching, fumble around for the phone number and ask her if she wants to have sex, you turn her off because you are taking on the feminine role.
A solid pickup is basically when you meet a random girl and then creating a strong polarity between the two of you. Qualification and comfort are important because they give her the opportunity to react to you and become comfortable with being in their feminine around you.
A man with a strong masculine polarity does the following:
1. Is at home in the environment. Everyone around him is his friend because it his stomping ground.
2. Carries himself with a playful cockiness.
3. Is a source of grounding energy who knows that what he says is worth being heard because it comes from him.
4. Leads the interaction to wherever he wants it to go.
5. Believe that a lot of girls want him and that he is choosing which one he likes.
If you want to work on your masculine polarity, focus on becoming more aggressive and dominant. When you work on your masculine polarity, you will become a more attractive man both during the pickup and in whatever type of relationship follows.
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