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Inner Game: The Power of the Center

Women are attracted to strong, confident men. They like being able to totally relax into their man and let him lead her to new heights of excitement and pleasure. This is something that most women crave deep down.

In order to be the type of man who can lead her, you need to be centered. This means that you are in touch with who you are, where you are going and why you are going in that direction. It means that you are not only aware of this but also emotionally passionate about it.

When you are centered, you become a sun floating around the universe that attracts others to orbit around you. When you are not centered you are a planet looking for something to orbit and suck energy from.

Being centered is a practice, not a technique. This means that you must constantly and consciously center yourself until it becomes a habit.

As a warning, some of these practices might come across as weird. While they might seem a little strange, they do work.

Physically you can center yourself by consciously breathing and getting in tune with your peripheral vision. Take five deep breath breaths into the stomach. Pay attention to your vision along with the air rushing into your nose and your stomach at the same time. Maintain that attention to quiet your mind.

Consciously breathing works to emotionally center yourself as well. As you take deep breaths, allow your tension, anxiety and pressure to be released when you exhale. This requires you to visualize but will make you noticeably more relaxed.

You can center yourself mentally when you accept everything exactly as it is. By letting go of the past and future, you can become aligned with the present moment and observe your ego.

Once you are physically, emotionally and mentally centered, you are able act from a centered state. Being able to act from a centered state, however, doesn’t mean that you are actually centered.

To be truly centered you need to align yourself with your beliefs, values and ambitions in life. When a woman says “I want a man who knows what he wants,” this is what they are talking about.

Aligning with these things requires you first and foremost to actually have beliefs, values and ambitions of your own. Once you have them, it is a matter of living them fully convinced that what you are doing is what you need to be doing. When you are at that level, then you won’t need to do exercises to become mentally, emotionally and physically centered.

Once you become a centered man, you can become the center of a woman’s universe. This means that when you lead a girl into whatever kind of relationship you want with her, you do so congruently because you are so comfortable with who you are and where you are going.

That is the power of the center. First you find yourself. After you find yourself, you can center yourself. Once you center yourself, you can become the center.

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