Pick Up Artists Scam
By Pick Up Artists Association
Ever since The Game came out, a lot of people have criticized the community and PU in general. These critics of the Pick Up Artists Community say that “gurus” are selling snake oil and that their teachings do more harm than good to guys looking to become more successful with women.
Critics like Barry Kirkey (Extramask from The Game) say that because the community has become commercialized it is more interested in indoctrinating guys so that they buy more products instead of actually helping guys with their issues. These guys argue that the community will do nothing more than make you weirder than you already are.
Others like Steve Pavlina say that the community teaches men how to manipulate women because the type of guys who come into the community want to get a twisted sort of revenge on the women who have rejected them in the past.
Overcoming Approach Anxiety
Approach anxiety can be a huge barrier to success with women. If you can’t take the first step in meeting a woman, then none of the other steps can follow. Approach anxiety comes about because we are wired to associate social rejection with death. Because of this, we experience a “fight or flight” response when we think about approaching women. Most of the time, we choose the “flight”option. There are a number of ways to lesson the anxiety that you feel when approaching women. In order for any of these things to work, you must actually approach women and push your comfort zone in some way. If you aren’t doing that, then you are actually doing more harm than good. The most extreme way to overcome approach anxiety is to run out to the nearest nightclub and start approaching sets Read more »
Inner Game: The Power of the Center
Women are attracted to strong, confident men. They like being able to totally relax into their man and let him lead her to new heights of excitement and pleasure. This is something that most women crave deep down. In order to be the type of man who can lead her, you need to be centered. This means that you are in touch with who you are, where you are going and why you are going in that direction. It means that you are not only aware of this but also emotionally passionate about it. When you are centered, you become a sun floating around the universe that attracts others to orbit around you. When you are not centered you are a planet looking for something to orbit and suck energy from. Being centered is a practice, not a technique. This means Read more »
What Is State?
By Pick Up Artists Association Natural game centers around state and how to be in it for long periods of time. When you are in state, you are at your absolute best. You are confident, in the moment and a bonafide risk taker. Needless to say, women will dig this version of you. What exactly does it feel like to be in state? When you are in state, you have a surge of positivity, steadiness and dominance. Everything clicks. Most importantly, you become the source of good emotions in your environment. On the other hand, when you are out of state you feel incomplete. You feel anxiety and unnatural to the point where everything feels off. If you ever feel robotic and are inside of your head, you are probably out of state. If you aren’t thinking and Read more »
Masculine And Feminine Polarity
By Pick Up Artists Association
If you want to become really successful with women, you need to make a fundamental shift in who you are. An important part of this shift is coming into alignment with your masculine core.
Polarity is a term that is thrown around a lot in books on relationships, spiritual sexuality and sexual yoga. It also has a place in discussion within the Pick Up Artists Community.
Polarity comes across as a pretty airy-fairy new age concept in most writings, but it really isn’t so. Polarity is simply the “vibe” that you feel from others that pulls you towards them.
The basic distinction is that masculine is action and feminine in reaction. This holds true from the approach to 50 years of marriage in a healthy relationship.
